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My second ex became unbelievably jealous and we had heated arguments for months before I finally filed for divorce.  Yes his jealousy was not unfounded.  I was seeing someone, but of course I never admitted anything.  He didn't need my confession as it turned out.  He caught me red handed.  Yes I was humiliated and immediately filed for the divorce.  It was about mid month and we agreed he would stay in a guest bedroom until he found a new place.  That gave me the opportunity to really stick my other man in his face.  God it was hot for me coming in and getting ready to go back out.  When I did come home I would come in looking like I had been rode hard and put up wet.  And some nights I would spend the night.  He gave me the silent treatment but I knew......just how much it was hurting him.  And suprisingly it was hot as hell for me knowing I was killing him.  It actually spoiled my fun when he finally moved out.  I knew I was being cruel but it was oh so hot for me! I mean to the point of being down right erotic.

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I knew that some men crave the feeling of being "cuckolded"...having other men with "their girl". I didn't know that this can be so satisfying for the woman involved.

Do you think it would have been as hot if you knew he was getting an erotic thrill out of it too? I want my wife to be with other men, but knowing I'm enjoying it might take away some of the excitement if she's like you.

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I think the "forbidden" aspect of something can be intoxicating, even if it isn't a secret. Here are some links which you may find interesting:

Cheating hearts: Who's doing it and why

The Other Woman: Scandalous Stories Revealed




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Thanks for the links Stephanie!

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No, it was hurting him deeply, and surprisingly, that was what made it so hot for me.  If he had enjoyed it I know it would have diminished my enjoyment.

 

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