I cook and clean for a living and once again, i come home to a dirty house, the kids did nothing and weren't made to do anything to help out, and the hubby sitting around all day doing NOTHING except sleeping!!! And then i hear, "Whats for dinner?"...he seems to think that i have nothing better to do than work my butt off all day and then come home to cook him dinner... he's a chef, he can cook too....same with the laundry..it gets dumped on my side of the bed no matter whose laundry it is...and there it stays til i move it.... He works when he feels like it, cheating his company outta time...i wish i had the money for a divorce cuz i cant wait to divorce til the kids are grown....legal aid here is a joke....cases like mine, the woman always gets lousy advice.....know too many women who got screwed by legal aid...i'm just so sick of his put downs, constant belittling, name calling, disrespect, and being made to feel like what really matters to me is just an inconvenience for him.....and being made to feel like he only married me to have someone provide a life for him... he's always complaining about he has no life...sorry, its not my fault you have no life....he doesn't get the connection ....and how he should not rely solely on me for his happiness...I'm sick of it... and i'm sick of him...and i am ready to divorce him...my 12y.o. ds is already showing signs of being a verbal abuser....to me! and he sees his dad doing it, so he must figure its ok to do that to mom....he pushed me in the store when i wasn't walking fast enough..i cant physically punish him either, he's too big..and i can't take away materiel possessions he doesn't have....is it any wonder i dont want to go home? hubby doesn't get the connection either, thats WHY i stay out with my friends...oh yeah, he has no friends either..my friends are NOT his friends.. they cant stand him either...
Good description? here: he's the kind of person you could give a million dollars to, and he would complain about the denominations the money was in....not showing any thanks whatsoever....
Thanks for listening..
Love 
