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alright, 2 weeks ago a guy finds me online, and we end up meeting and really itting it off.

we hang out every other night or so,

im sleeping in his bed,

were going skating together,

were always texting,

but he hasnt hit on me even ONCE.

now, this is weird to me because he found me on the internet..

i assumed i would be keeping him off me with a stick!

but he hasnt tried to kiss me or anything.

the problem here, is that i have COMPLETELY fallen for him.

he sends me stupid ittle hearts in his texts,

he walks in to his room with no shirt after his shower when he knows im in there on the bed,

does ANYONE know whats going on?

is he just teasing me?

im SO confused!!!

Hi zombiemachine,

I'm not sure I have any advice for you on what the guy is thinking, but I'm a little concerned that in two weeks you've gone from talking to a guy online, to sleeping in his bed, and feeling as though you're in love with him.  Please be careful!

what is this "instant jury" web site? sounds interesting.

You really should be careful with this guy.  Do you even know his last name.  THe fact that he's taking it slow, shows two possibilities. 

 1.  He's really looking for love, not sex.  He may have done the online dating thing more times than he's willing to admit, and now is looking for love.

2. He's contemplating on how to get over on you.  He may be wrestling with his conscience about moving on with you.  He may be married, involved, or a con artist.  You just never know.