Hot Topic: I Don't Want to Get Married

This board has been slow, so I thought I'd spice things up.
I put this in poll form to keep it confidential, but if you'd like to comment, feel free.

I guess I'm wondering if the old saying "What is one food that lowers a woman's libido? Wedding cake" is true... or is it really something happens in time.

What is YOUR 2 cents?

   

Old married couple here too.   Perhaps 3 times a month.

Still, I'm having waaaay more sex than when I was formally married to my first husband.   Due to marriage issues back then, my libido dropped to zero.

No complaints.

Mostly once a week. Sometimes twice a week. I'd actually prefer more of a 2-3 times solid, a week. We have different schedules, so I'm more likely to get any from Thursday to Sunday. Very rarely two days in a row. Has to be atleast a day or two apart for him to get into it again.

I have noticed though, the longer between, the better the O. Like if I can't for a week & I'm panting for it, BAM huuuge ending(s). lol 

But never a problem in the O area. He's goal oriented there. It's such an ego stroke when I can't sit up or focus my eyes I guess.   ;-)

I'm actually terrified of sex going away for any reason. Maybe part of the reason I'm not running to get married, I don't want anything to change, at all.

I don't know if it drops over time - we've only been together a little over two years - but my guy still treats sex like it's an opportunity to worship at the feet of his goddess.  ;-)  What can I say?  The man lives for female orgasm.  He fills our lovemaking with such a sense of joy and celebration, and he's eager to try anything and never disgusted or appalled when I take the reins.  What I love about being with him is that the rest of the world falls away - I don't think about the project at work or the shirt I need to iron before tomorrow or my favorite show that I'm missing on TV.  He is so focused and present that he makes my mind clear and calm and there is only us.  We don't have sex that frequently - maybe 4 or 5 times a month - but that's only because when we do, it takes me a whole week to catch my breath again.  ;-)