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  7/23/2008 10:16 pm

I am now the cl in board. I have noticed this board is not as busy as when it first came out. I hope I can try to keep this board busy again. I would like to know how you ended up in this board. For me, I am an anti-marriage person. I hate to be asked for my life of "when are you going to be married?" I can tell you that is a number of reasons I don't want to get married at all. I am confident that I don't want it anytime in my life with anyone. Most of those people just refuse to accept my answers. I normally host this board in the evening.

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  7/27/2008 12:17 am

I suggested this board to the mods because at the time it really started sinking in that my boyfriend is/was serious about not wanting to be married again, and I felt so displaced on IV. I was grieving because marriage is important to me, if only for the respect I/"one" gets for their relationship. I want to be taken seriously. I don't want to be asked if I'm the nanny, or introduced as the "friend"... I am more than that!

Anyway, I was hoping to find like minded people, but like minded in my boyfriend's thoughts so I could better understand his position. I've gotten that and I'm glad!


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