Pornography & Your Relationship

Trey: "You were talking about 18 year old friends of their daughters...And that men were programmed biologically to avoid relationships with them..I disagree..I showed a current culture of 1.5 billion humans that do that everything in some instances."

Then bed 18 year olds Trey. Alot of you guys want to defend your "biologies". Then live by your biologies and stop making women pay for them.

Trey: "If you claimed men from western cultures were by social custom and culture inoculated to avoid relations with their offspring's peer group, I would agree.

No, that's not what I said. Although there is social conditioning for both men and WOMEN to not have relationships with their offspring's peer group. However, there is a very biological sound reason why this shouldn't happen as well. But if you want to bed other's in your own children's peer group, please go ahead and do so.

Trey: "Cultural and biological programming is very different.

Then you and all the men out there should be bedding whoever you want.

Trey: " Warrior cultures tend to allow more then one wife....

THen have mutliple wives. Lets treat women like they are multiple indulgences and less worthless then their daughter's friends. It sonuds like that would make alot of men more happy with their life.

If you want to defend bending your daughter's friends and mutiple wives, then pleaes go do those things that you are dead set on defending.

This Maybe a Dumb Question I have read several of the posts on here and I'm not quite sure what the Questions/Problem is here, Is it the porn watching, Is it the content of the porn, is it the length or the lack of other activity? It started as a pretty simple post however it seems to have turned into a men are horrible because they are attracted to attractive women.

I thought that was pretty basic knowledge. He may be attracted to other "better" looking women. but if he is a GOOD man he wont stray he will stay. I have been with My husband for 8 years we have recently married, and I am not blind to the fact that there are other women out there and that some are more attractive then me and yes at first i feel insecure but then i remember he loves me and just because he is looking at them ( he watches porn too) doesn't mean he doesn't love me. There are men that I see and think are attractive both real life and celebrities but that doesn't mean him leaving my husband to run away with them. We are human and we have eyes and they will look, the point is not to touch.

If you keep your love to close they will suffocate and either escape or die. Pick your battles. Also I personally don't see the big deal with porn. I have watched it with my husband as well as he watches it alone. I don't see the big deal however like other have said if the hrs he spent is a normal everyday thing then he may have an addiction and may need help