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Edited 10/25/2009 2:43 am ET by rainsm
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This Maybe a Dumb Question I have read several of the posts on here and I'm not quite sure what the Questions/Problem is here, Is it the porn watching, Is it the content of the porn, is it the length or the lack of other activity? It started as a pretty simple post however it seems to have turned into a men are horrible because they are attracted to attractive women.

I thought that was pretty basic knowledge. He may be attracted to other "better" looking women. but if he is a GOOD man he wont stray he will stay. I have been with My husband for 8 years we have recently married, and I am not blind to the fact that there are other women out there and that some are more attractive then me and yes at first i feel insecure but then i remember he loves me and just because he is looking at them ( he watches porn too) doesn't mean he doesn't love me. There are men that I see and think are attractive both real life and celebrities but that doesn't mean him leaving my husband to run away with them. We are human and we have eyes and they will look, the point is not to touch.

If you keep your love to close they will suffocate and either escape or die. Pick your battles. Also I personally don't see the big deal with porn. I have watched it with my husband as well as he watches it alone. I don't see the big deal however like other have said if the hrs he spent is a normal everyday thing then he may have an addiction and may need help

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you know your bf may simply be thinking of having sex with you. but you are not around, and he needs some stimulation. relax.
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