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bobbee2009

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Sep-23 11:24 am

HI everyone..I'm 18 years old..the story starts when I was 12 years old I was infatuated with this girl,but never in a sexual way..i was obsessed by her personality and I loved her so much like I was crazy about her..that all stopped when I was 16..I've never been attracted to a guy before but I don't know many as I was in a girls' school so all the guys i knew were just lame..I've never been sexually attracted to a girl but now i just love watching lesbian porn but when i fantasize i fantasize about men.. Omg I just dont understand can anyone help ????...Am I bi curious or what??

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Sep-26 12:07 am

Hi, Bobbee! I read your message and Here is what I think. I think you are very young and it is quite possible that you can go in any direction with your sexuality. It is too soon to tell. I am a Bisexual women so I know what it is like to go through periods of confusion as well as being attracted to both sexes. At your age you are still exploring and finding out what you like. I think the best thing to say is that you are still finding your way and that you are Bicurious. When you get a little bit older and you have been in a relationship with someone else a few times you will no more as to where you stand. It is not so much what gender you are attracted to that matters. It matters how you feel about each other and how you treat each other. The truth is if we love people for who they are on the inside their gender is irrelevent.I wish you all the best. Love yourself. Be patient with yourself. Be yourself and be honest. Your heart will help you to decide who the right person is for you.

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Sep-26 10:55 pm

Hi Bobbee!

Welcome to the board!

No one can tell you what your sexuality is ~~ only you can identify what it is. And I can understand your confusion. Because you are young, it may take more time and experience before you feel ready to say for sure one way or the other.

But it sounds like you are at least bi-curious.

Good luck as you explore what it all means for you!

Jeanine

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"To be married means we belong with someone else, that we are no longer always alone, ... that there is a parallel presence and spirit in all that we undertake. We are bridled, connected, attended. We move in the midst of the aura, the welcoming soul-filling presence of another human being...

Because we know we are loved, we can step beyond our fears; because we have been chosen, we can transcend our insecurities. We can make mistakes, knowing we will not be cast out; take missteps, knowing someone will be there to catch us. And because mistakes and missteps are the stuff of change, of expansion, in marriage we can expand to our fullest capacity; in marriage we can heal."

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Sep-28 3:18 pm

Many of my crushes were not sexual when growing up either. It is hard to fantasize about something you have never really tried. I say explore a bit... try kissing a girl (that your are interested in, of course), see if that changes anything. I think that you should also give yourself some time and not limit yourself to gender. Just enjoy meeting people. One day a man or a woman will show up that will really move you! You might understand yourself better then.

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I think you could say you were bi-curious.

My advice would be dont worry about slapping a label ( bi curious, straight, lesbian etc.) on yourself just yet.

I suggest you explore your options, you may not have found the right guy, or you may not have found the right woman. Relax, and go with what you feel most comfortable doing.

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