Let's Talk about Sex

 you feel most uncomfortable speaking when you are just getting to know a guy?

In my case if a guy starts to asks questions about sex, because since im not experienced, it is something I don’t share with anyone, not even family, friends or acquaintances much less with a guy im just starting to know. I don’t feel comfortable to openly talk about sex and details of it, I know I don’t have anything to say with since im not experienced, but  questions about,  How long ago you don’t have sex? Or even if im not experienced at all, questions about Do u give oral at least?,  How are you in bed? How you don’t have sex for so so long, because that is odd for a pretty woman at your age.  I mean I want  guys to get to know me for who I am, my inner beauty,  not just on a sex issue (not because they intend to have sex with me but it is a topic, guys like to talk about) because it is a topic  I don’t like to talk about and I don’t share with anyone.

The main reason is because im a virgin still at my age ( Im more than 33 yrs old, but still on my 30s) I have never had sexual intercourse before with a guy, I never had or received oral either so when people start asking me questions about it, I try to dodge the questions or even lie about it if people still want at least an answer, but I prefer to talk about something else. I feel uncomfortable because once I tell them the truth, they cant believe how come Im a pretty lady at my age and in this century Im still a virgin so they will continue with the questions as how can it be and that is extremely odd, so sex is a topic I don’t like to talk about and feel uncomfortable speaking even around friends.

When there is something you don't want to discuss, then you don't discuss it.

If a guy that you hardly know starts asking you questions about sex, and your sex life, you just tell them that you don't care to discuss it, and then DON'T!

How do these people know you're a virgin if you don't tell them?  Stop telling people personal things........then there won't be a problem.

There are a million things that you can discuss with someone you're just getting to know.......and if ANY subject comes up that you're not comfortable with.......just say it........."I don't want to talk about that".

Welcome to the board, Starlettos.

I agree with Fissatore ... just tell them you're not interested in discussing that. If they ask how you can still be a virgin, let them know that it's your choice. Another thing that usually works is to ask "why do you want to know". That puts them on the spot instead of you.

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