Let's Talk about Sex

I was just curious as to how guys generally feel about a girl touching herself during intimate situations (outside of intercourse). The other night my guy was fingering me, and while he had his hand inside me, I used my fingers to rub my clit, resulting in a great orgasm. I was just wondering if guys in general would take this as insulting (like, as if they're not good enough on their own), or do they enjoy watching?

As a side note, he does just fine making me orgasm on his own as well. ;)

Sorry, but that's something you'd have to ask HIM!  He's the only one who can give you the correct answer.

All men are different........and it depends on many things......how he feels about sex in general, how secure or insecure he is, how he feels about women, and many other factors.

You did it, and you said nothing about a reaction from him....so it probably doesn't bother HIM.....or maybe he didn't notice.

Also, since more than 80% of women do NOT have orgasms during intercourse alone, there's nothing unusual about a woman stimulating her clitoris during intercourse.......of course HE could do it, and/or your postion could do it. 

Hopefully you can talk to him about sexual things........and you can ask him what he thought about it, or if he even noticed you doing it.  Maybe you could show HIM how to do it next time.  A woman should be able to ask for what she wants and likes.......there's nothing unusual about that, either.

Welcome to the board, Muse.

I think any secure man is going to not only like it, but love it. I know for DH, one of his greatest pleasures, is watching me. If I'm pleasuring myself or helping him pleasure me, all the better!