Make Him Moan

A good article!

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The payoff of an escapade -- good, bad or unintentionally hilarious -- should be that it draws you two closer because you were in it together. Maybe you'll laugh. Maybe you'll recoil. Most likely you'll simply know each other even better than you did before. <<<

Those are my favorite times. Embarrassing in a good way.

Like I farted by accident & just froze, he laughed at me for being so embarrassed. I had to laugh too.

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#5 - Authenticity - The more you reveal yourself, the more intimacy you create. <<<

Definitely trying to be authentic. To push thru any fears of revealing too much. To give it my all, or I might as well give up.

I've been trying to bring back kissing. It's fallen out of favor. And part of me worries it'll be too much at first. So much more intimate than like a BJ.

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but nothing will ever hit you with the intensity of parenthood. -- SKIP!!

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Eventually you begin avoiding each other -- or, more to the point, you avoid encounters that might lead to sex. It gets easier and easier to sidestep it altogether. And so you live like roommates. <<<

Eeek, my nightmare!

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#8 Confidence ... there was a time I was certain that no one could possibly be having, hotter, better sex than us. LOL. That we were just asses on fire!

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The long version is that to truly give your attention, you must give your time, for how can you make each other feel heard and appreciated if you're always rushing around being so darned productive, making a beautiful home, beautiful kids, a beautiful career? <<<

It's good we're lazy & have the time for this. LOL

mutual admiration society - a good name for it! and possibly for a band

Great list!