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  Oct-13 2:57 am

hi everyone..this is my frst time here...i just want to share my story..im 26yrs old and my guy just turnd 19...we met in our church choir...we started being friends last december 2008.And he started txtng me around march 2009,we became closer than i ever thought of..yes I find him attractive and he doesn't look his age...at first i also dnt have an idea that he was that young,i thought he was just 3yrs younger not 7 to 8 yrs by my surprise...we became so attached that lead us to be more intimate but we've come to a point where we decided 2b just bestfrnds...the idea is good but up to now,we felt the same way...he's trying to court girls his age right now but still treasure me as someone really special...while me,on the other hand dont want 2b in a relationship and i still treat my bstfrnd very special...most of the tym we stl say "ilovu/ilovu2" thing.and we even had plans of going out alone..i dont know how to stop my romantic feelings for him.im still happy having him but im afraid to let him go when the time comes that he will have a serious relationship with someone :(
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  Oct-18 8:04 am

A seven year difference is not much. As time goes by it will be less. Right now in this country is is an impediment. However,time will tell. Hold back ? What for? would it no be better to try it out than to always wonder what could have been? just my opinion!
xvra
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