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So there is a guy that I am intereseted in.. however he has a girlfriend that he has been dating for a while. When we are together, we flirt like crazy, all of my friends say that he gives me 'longing looks' as well as he stares at me when i'm looking away.  Is he interested in me? Or am I imginating things? I do think that I like him, and I have a crazy feeling that he likes me!

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What you should do is remove lust and feelings and look at this with harsh critical eyes.

This guy has a girlfriend that he has been dating for a while, and he is giving single/available signals to you. So if you get him, what have you really gotten? Either a cheater or a guy who is eager to dump his girlfriend for the next pretty little flirty gal that comes along.

You should back off and see if he persues you. If he does you should ask him "what about your girlfriend", and if he has any other response than "I broke up with her" so that he could be available to date you then he's a creap.

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Never get involved with a guy who is seeing somebody else. That is just asking for serious trouble. If he is flirting with you while he is with her, what makes you think he won't do the same to you? What goes around, comes around. You do not want the misery that getting involved with somebody who is taken will bring.

You need to stay away from this one. There are many who are available. Don't waste your time and energy chasing after somebody who is already spoken for.

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I agree with the others....you are just asking for trouble.  As long as he is taken he should be off limits.  If he will do it with you he will do it to you.  If you were his gf, how would this make you feel?  Not very good I would imagine.  Why would you want a cheater (liar)  if they didn't lie they couldn't cheat.
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I agree with the previous posters and add this article to the mix, too - I think it still applies even though it's geared towards a married man.

 
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