wow, i had to go back and read my post before i answered you. i posted that back in April. well it was easy for me. both were MM, so they were not in my face 24/7. it worked out. when i was with one, i would get a call or texted by the other. the MM would not ? me or who i was talking to, i never ? them. they had no right, as i didnt have a right to ? them. i was not their W as they were not my H. sometimes i would see both of them in the same day. i would leave one to be with the other, etc. wasnt always easy but since i had much more with AP#1, he was always my priority. and if we get back together, he still will be, if i ever get involved in another A. the second AP i have since left and have NC with him. was my own decision. long story. with AP#1 it was more of a friendship thing than just great sex (which was the best sex of my life!). AP#2 was more about sex and a heck of a lot easier to let go... and now im not with anyone but DH right now which is what i want.