discussion title:
Orgasming From Intercourse???
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9722.5 in response to 9722.1
Hi howie, you've asked a great question and I hope you don't mind me putting in my 2 cents about it since it has been a source of wonderment for me too. My wife is able to achieve orgasm through intercourse and I've questioned her regarding what is it about penetration that that helps her get there when other women have difficulty. Her answer has always been, that it's not so much the penetration but how much stimulation and pressure her clitoris receives and how prepared and aroused she is prior to intercourse. Years ago she wasn't able to have an orgasm unless she masturbated and she was never one to use toys and other objects to insert into her vagina, she only stimulated her clitoris an inner lips. We even learned that if she had an orgasm prior to intercourse, she was more likely to experience another during intercourse. Through experimentation, she learned to have an orgasm when she was on top with me moving very little. She likes to glide and rotate her pubic mound against me and even though my member is inside her, the largest portion of my shaft is sliding between the lips. So between the grinding of the clitoris and the sliding of the shaft high up between the lips, she gets adequate clitoral stimulation during the act of intercourse. I wish it had more to do with my penis being buried within her tunnel of love, but for us, it's just not the case. For her anyway, the key to orgasmic satisfaction and bliss, is her clitoris. I'm just thankful that she has them with me.