This board is a support community for members who were involved in an extramarital affair (EMA). This board is NOT a place to post opinions about infidelity, nor is it designed for individuals whose spouse has been (or is) unfaithful to ask questions. We intend for this board to be a forum for adults to safely share their experiences and get support. Any posts that violate these guidelines will be removed, and can result in immediate banning from the site.
Before you post, please consider your situation and the following boards which may be more appropriate for you and your situation:
If you are a betrayed spouse, please visit Betrayed Spouses Support or Life After Betrayal.
If you are in the process of ending your EMA, please visit Ending an Affair Support (EAS).
If you currently involved in an affair, please visit My Affair Support (MAS).
If you would like to debate the effects of infidelity, please visit All Sides of an Affair debate board.
Above all, please remember that this is a public forum and problematic posts should be reported to the Community Team for review and possible removal to avoid disrupting the board.
If you have any questions or concerns, please email relationshipscm@mail.ivillage.com.
Thank you for your cooperation and for your participation in our forums.
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