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  Sep-14 1:51 pm

My husband and i have been married for 10 years, Sex was ok not great, He was always too quick, I man 2 minutes it over. iam so fusturated i want to leave, I tried everything,Iam out of options. He never wants to talk, He gets mad when i try to talk to him, I have very littel friends we own a business so its hard to meet girl friend to hang out with. Help i need advice!
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  Sep-16 4:31 am

Hi, and welcome to the board. I'm afraid I don't really have any advice to give you, unless you give us a little more information. If he can't or won't talk to you about this, then you're really in a tough spot. Do you have a doctor you can go to and discuss this with? If you own your own business and work together, are you under a lot of stress and pressure? Do you have children?


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  Sep-30 3:33 pm

Hi. Hugs.

I have been with my DH for about 10 years also and we have similar problems.  DH is very quick, 1-2 minutes and his done.  Doesn't discuss things - shuts down, but thankfully does not get mad, cannot get a word out of him. 

About a year ago he went to the doctor and was prescribed an antidepressant that is supposed to help with premature ejaculation as a side effect.  Sometimes I can tell he lasts longer, but not always.  I don't know if he is taking this medicine or not.  I have just learned to live with the shortness of the intercourse, and I am ok with it.  I have noticed that sometimes if we have sex two days in a row, rare for us, then the second day he would last a little longer.

This is a great board and I have gotten some really good advice here.  Stick around and may be you will find something useful for youself.
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  Oct-2 11:23 am

You mentioned that you have tried everything.  Would you elaborate? Does he pleasure you orally?  Have you tried using a vibrator or other sex toys together in the bedroom?  Does he work in any way to make sure that you have an orgasm before intercourse starts?
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