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I am a happily married man to an awesome wife. We have been married for almost ten years and the love only seems to grow. I still have loads of love and passion for my wife. Our sex life for one has only got better. We have learned alot about each other in the bedroom and that has made things get better and better for our sex life. I have seen my wife go from the shy and quiet person she once was to the free and wild woman she truly is. I give her total freedom and love in the bedroom so she can totally let go. For me, the most sexually gratifying thing in my life is giving pleasure to her. I have seen her truly let go and realize her orgasm potential. I love that my wife has them, sometimes multiple and on occasion even squirts now. At one time for me, I felt my orgasm was in a way a bummer because it was one sided and got in the way of our fun. Now, we are able to give hers and then I have mine. That to me is the best sex any married couple can have. She is my sex goddess...I love that woman. Anyway, I started to look into some kind of fun trip for her and I. We have wanted to take a "real" vacation for quite some time so I started to look into erotic or sexy kind of trips. All I could find were trips basically just to get laid and not from the one you love. I am not looking for another person or sex party if you will....I am just looking for somewhere to take my wife.....a place to have romance....have passionate sex...good food....you name it. I just thought something with maybe a naughty twist could be fun. I have taken her to the nice hotels, the bed and breakfasts and so on....just looking for something to add a little spice. Our 10 year is coming up so what could be a better way to celebrate it than a really good getaway. So if there are any suggestions or ideas out there, I would really appreciate it. Thanks for your time. Got to go....I have a hot wife I need to go make love to.

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We have been to the Sandal's resorts and they may be what you are looking for.  I have been getting email offering 55% to 65% off.  They even have airfare deals.  The Sandals Negril is next to Hedo II (clothing optional#, so you can take walks along the beach #and through Hedo) and if Hedo is right maybe that is the place to go.  These are all inclusive deals so you can eat, drink and there is no tipping allowed plus they have entertainment nights.  You might want to check out their websites.  Jamaica is a fun place to visit as long as you stay on the resort.  We have found these places nice getaways to get away from stress, children things and other claims on your daily life. Last time we were there, we had a blast and rediscovered our lovelife.  Try it, you might like it. 
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on our honeymoon, dh and I rented a private condo in St. martin. The condo had was 3/4 of the way up the mountain overlooking the Phillipsburg Harbor. We had our own private hot tub and pool....oooh, yeah.....

St. Martin has some of the best beaches and food that the islands have to offer.

Good luck with your decision!

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These both look like really good suggestions. I checked them both out and they both look awesome. These are the kind of destinations I am looking for. Exotic and beautiful....somewhere to totally escape to with my wife. The Jamaican resort photos really jumped out at me, but what are the dangers off the resort? We have been to Cabo for example and I know it is third world nation kind of stuff when you are out of the tourist areas even though Cabo is not too bad (yet there were policia at times with machine guns - just got to be cool)...that kind of thing? As for the Carribean, that looks nice too and has fun places to explore. I will have to look more into these sites. I appreicate your help.....

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I have no ideas but want to thank you for your post, which was a delightful breath of fresh air. There are so many problems out there and on these boards, it is great to hear of a wonderful marriage and two lovers who go all out for each other even after a decade.

Wherever you go, I hope it even more blows you two away in pleasure & delight.

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