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  Nov-2 2:58 pm

Hi Everyone,

 

So there is this guy who Im seeing and we have been seeing each other for 5 months now. He's doing things that I dont quite understand what to do with.  First off he thinks he's always right but he says it in a joking way with a smile. Then he asks me what I'm did for the day and I will tell him but then again if he hears something he doesnt understand then he gives me a lecture on how silly it was for me to do that and so forth.  Then I will tell him something and he wont believe it or he will disagree with me; which is fine but its almost the majority part of the relationship he has disagreed with me.   He treats me well otherwise. Im just not sure what to do. I feel little bit controlled which I don't like but when I think about how he might be controlling me I cant pin point it so I can talk to him about it.  What should I do?

 

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Crystal

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  Nov-2 5:30 pm

Run, you do not want to live with that for the rest of your life! I am speaking from personal experience!
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Hi,

 

Okay thank you.

 

Crystal

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  Nov-8 6:44 pm

Don't run talk. Next time he does that say "I thought you asked what I did today? I wasn't asking for your evaluation of it? Do you realize how rude and condescending you sound? Don't talk to me like this anymore, I don't like it." Try that.
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WOW... I like that!  Thank you. I will let you know how it goes.

 

 

Crystal

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