The Single Life

I really think there's no such thing as unrequited love.  I think true love must be mutual.  Anything less is just interest...lust...obsession.  Which is what you have.

You have a choice here.  Either continue to obsess over him or move on.  It's been long enough that things aren't going to change.  Either you can keep feeling miserable or you can make the choice to move ahead.  It's up to you.

I really think there's no such thing as unrequited love.  I think true love must be mutual.  Anything less is just interest...lust...obsession.  Which is what you have.

This is something I have to tell myself all the time.  I have fallen so hard for guys who didnt want me, and I felt something that couldnt be love because it was not reciprocated..but it was something different.  How they made me feel.  I would think, if I can only have him, I would give up the parties, the guys, everything.  Everytime I would see him, I would get butterflies, his smile, his eyes, everything about him was just beautiful, and I loved the way it it made me feel.  Everything would seem better.  The day would seem sunnier, music would sound better.  The way he would make me feel, there is no other feeling better than that in the world.  But it was not mutual.  So of course there was heartbreak.  But isnt that a taste of being in love? Or being in love with love?

I think that's infatuation.  Been there many times.  Love takes much more time, much more contact, and a mutual adoration.