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Fisting or hold hand inside a woman??
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9714.4 in response to 9714.1
I have let my husband do so to me. If it hurts that means a couple different things, as if it is done right it does not hurt. My partner and I have been "fisting" for a few months now. We use A LOT of vaseline (the more the better IMO). The main thing aside from vaseline is to relax. This is Key to enjoying this. If you do not trust your partner I would not reccommend it. It has hurt only once, as he hit something inside that was a bit painful. My partner and I have worked out "safe words", meaning we have specific words to let each other know to stop if it starts hurting. Also, if you have had one or two drinks or any other ways one can think of to not be totally sober, as it makes any type of pain feel a lot less intense as if one is fully sober, as well as making pleasure feel even more intense than usual. I have tried it sober, and while it is still enjoyable, I still like to be slightly tipsy before doing so. The main thing is for you and your partner to enjoy yourselves. If you are worried about it hurting, consider sitting down with your partner and agreeing on a "safe word" that lets your partner know to stop. It is not something for the faint hearted to do, but if you are curious, or want a bit of extra spice and adventure, then I would reccomend doing so. It is an incredible feeling, as I feel extremely "full", plus having his hand in there like this also allows extreme g-spot stimulation. Let's just say that when we were done, I was shaking so bad I couldn't stand for a good thirty minutes or so, as he had totally rocked my world. Some people would think it is gross or whatever, and it is not. If you are wanting a bit more than the same old same old, trust your partner(this is Majorly important), then it is fine. My husband starts slow, with just one finger inside, then we work our way from there. Foreplay is also a major thing to. The more worked up the woman is the better this will feel. Hope this answers your questions on this howie_t.