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Fisting or hold hand inside a woman??

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This is something that I have been seeing talked about alot as well as pictures and videos on it and it is still really hard to believe,because it seems like it would hurt ALOT!,but I really would like to know,Can a woman really have someone put their hold hand or fist inside of them?

Do women ever let their partner do that to them?

If so and If you don't mind saying so,Is any women here ever let someone or thier partner do that to you?

The reason that I am saying that it seems like it would hurt alot is because the only time I have known a woman's vagina can stretch is when she is giving birth.

Your answers will be greatly appreciated.

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Howie - My SO and I enjoy this very much. It started kind of as an accident. I was fingering her g-spot and licking her at the same time. As she was hitting her *little* climaxes (on the way to the *big one*), she kept asking for "more" when I would go to massage her g-spot.

Well, one finger turned into two, then three and four. Finally, I asked her if she wanted my whole hand inside of her. She nodded and said "more" again, so I pushed my almost-closed hand into her. That's when she went over the edge.

It has been a part of our foreplay ever since. I should describe that I have a rather small hand for a guy, and my hands are that of an office worker (so no calluses, etc.) Sometimes, she gets turned on enough that she wants my hand inside her vagina and my penis inside her bottom. She says that she really likes to feel "full". I like it because it turns her on and because it is a bit naughty.

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I don't know. My hands are the size of a baby's head, but everyone is different.

If you read anal sex, there is a girl that was fisting her B/F up to to her elbow.

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I have let my husband do so to me. If it hurts that means a couple different things, as if it is done right it does not hurt. My partner and I have been "fisting" for a few months now. We use A LOT of vaseline (the more the better IMO). The main thing aside from vaseline is to relax. This is Key to enjoying this. If you do not trust your partner I would not reccommend it. It has hurt only once, as he hit something inside that was a bit painful. My partner and I have worked out "safe words", meaning we have specific words to let each other know to stop if it starts hurting. Also, if you have had one or two drinks or any other ways one can think of to not be totally sober, as it makes any type of pain feel a lot less intense as if one is fully sober, as well as making pleasure feel even more intense than usual. I have tried it sober, and while it is still enjoyable, I still like to be slightly tipsy before doing so. The main thing is for you and your partner to enjoy yourselves. If you are worried about it hurting, consider sitting down with your partner and agreeing on a "safe word" that lets your partner know to stop. It is not something for the faint hearted to do, but if you are curious, or want a bit of extra spice and adventure, then I would reccomend doing so. It is an incredible feeling, as I feel extremely "full", plus having his hand in there like this also allows extreme g-spot stimulation. Let's just say that when we were done, I was shaking so bad I couldn't stand for a good thirty minutes or so, as he had totally rocked my world. Some people would think it is gross or whatever, and it is not. If you are wanting a bit more than the same old same old, trust your partner(this is Majorly important), then it is fine. My husband starts slow, with just one finger inside, then we work our way from there. Foreplay is also a major thing to. The more worked up the woman is the better this will feel.  Hope this answers your questions on this howie_t.

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Hi and welcome. Just a little advice. You should not be using Vaseline or any kind of petroleum based products in your vagina. They tend to stick around and that would allow bacteria, body fluids, etc. to settle in your vagina. Which will lead lead to serious infections of the vagina, that can move to your anal area and to dh's penis. It should also not be used on condoms. You really should try a water-based lubricant.

Personally, I also don't think it's a good idea to be at all "tipsy". It sounds like you have no problem, but others may not be able to really feel any pain, which could lead to severe problems.


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