Thanks Barrister. I've known for the past year that it was over after trying my hardest for the past 3 years to try and get things back on track.
He and I are in agreement that it's best for the both of us and neither one of us will turn it into the War of the Roses. We've always been friends and we'll part as close friends.
Now that is what I need a personal trainer. I haven't been in the gym for a while. If I had one maybe I would make more progress, well I know I would if I know the personal trainer was shaved bare, I would be thinking about the smooth skin and forget about the exercise.