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  Oct-3 5:19 pm

One is left to wonder just how society expects a guy with a smaller than average sized penis get companionship? Or, for that matter, even heterosexual intercourse?
At one time, women were, for the most part, virgins before marriage and they really weren't attuned to all the variables that are involved in a healthy sexual relationship. This along with religious dogma, caused prostitution to become illegal and just about any average appearing guy could expect to find a wife if he was willing to treat her right and could hold employment suitable for keeping a roof over hers and their children's heads.
Now, I think it likely that many guys feel that a relationship isn't worth the heartache that would come with his not "measuring up" to some standard he has no way other than genetics of attaining,
He is far better off just living his life as a loner and getting his sexual release through prostitutes where there are no strings attached other than the few bucks involved in getting her services.
In all probability, the money spent would be far less than what would be involved in a permanent relationship and he is far more likely to score over a thirty year period paying one hit at a time than he would getting married.
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  Oct-4 12:42 pm

In the past (unfortunately still happens) women were led to believe that sexual pleasure was not something that good girls should try to have in a relationship.  Only bad girls have orgasms, only bad girls like sex.  When you are married just lay there and he will do disgusting things to you and then its all over - you have to because thats the only way you will have kids.

Now more women have been enlightened and learned that they can own their sexuality, indulge in pleasurable sexual intercourse, add some toys to enhance pleasure, role play and on top of everything be selective in choosing a suitable compatible sexual partner.  On the other side of the coin there are some women who wouldn't give a rat's behind if she ever had sex or satisfying sex ever again. There is someone for everyone out there.

I would say to men and women, if you play in junior minor leagues, dont go looking for a partner who is ranked in the top ten in the major leagues; someone or both parties are going to be severely disappointed.  If you know sexual satisfaction is #3 on his/her list of priorities while for you, sexual satisfaction, your capability or interest is #20 on the list, leave go looking elsewhere for another partner. 

Then, there are some women who will be content to have a luxury automobile at their disposal and a black American Express in her pocketbook as an alternative for a fulfilling sexual relationship.  I have a friend who was dating a guy who did not do oral sex, however, this  was her #1 most pleasurable sexual activity. She said if he bought her a 4 carat diamond ring she could look beyond not ever having oral sex for the rest of her life.  I said all this to say is, there is nothing set in stone, rules can be bent or broken.  I recently heard a comedian say that if women had to choose between a poor guy with a large penis and a rich guy with a small penis, all women would be driving Bentleys.  LOL

 

 


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The problem doesn't lie with the "rich guy with a small penis". The issue is with the poor guy who doesn't measure up to most women's expectations. A majority of women will insist that they are happy to have a guy with an average sized penis. In most cases, this is meant to be around six inches, give or take an inch.
The guy who fails to meet this "requirement" had best have a secure financial situation, or he is likely to be forced to purchase his companionship. The problem I have is that this society has chosen to deem this as illegal for whatever reason, be it superstition or perhaps monetary enhancement for the public "servants".
In any event, I would suggest that any woman who finds comedy in some flaw that a potential date may have, they just move on and leave the jokes to themselves once he isn't around to hear it.
Often times being drunk in no way takes away the pain for either the person who is the target of the ridicule nor the person dishing it out.
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  Oct-4 2:23 pm

Pssst!  This comedian was a man.

I see nothing wrong if two consenting adults want to exchange or barter goods or services of their own volition in a safe environment without the negotiators, managers and bloodsuckers. Its the world's oldest profession. Dont you think if there was no market out there that this profession would cease to exist?  Not everyone is cut out to have that fairy tale meet prince charming, live happily ever after routine.  There are some socially inept people, emotionally bankrupt or deficient and a whole host of people with varying maladies that dont fit into this cookie cutter environment that would best benefit from these services.

BTW, I know I'm late but I still want to extend a warm welcome to the Sex Taboos board.  So far you have been fitting in quite nicely, hope you stick around.

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  Oct-12 10:21 am

pssst! he was talking about how you and others found cl-dejastars  fake story so humours just for the fact that he was not large

yup lets make fun of people and act like we are perfect when we are not

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