discussion title:
It Can Be Too Large/Small!
message #:
9726.30 in response to 9726.29
In the past (unfortunately still happens) women were led to believe that sexual pleasure was not something that good girls should try to have in a relationship. Only bad girls have orgasms, only bad girls like sex. When you are married just lay there and he will do disgusting things to you and then its all over - you have to because thats the only way you will have kids.
Now more women have been enlightened and learned that they can own their sexuality, indulge in pleasurable sexual intercourse, add some toys to enhance pleasure, role play and on top of everything be selective in choosing a suitable compatible sexual partner. On the other side of the coin there are some women who wouldn't give a rat's behind if she ever had sex or satisfying sex ever again. There is someone for everyone out there.
I would say to men and women, if you play in junior minor leagues, dont go looking for a partner who is ranked in the top ten in the major leagues; someone or both parties are going to be severely disappointed. If you know sexual satisfaction is #3 on his/her list of priorities while for you, sexual satisfaction, your capability or interest is #20 on the list, leave go looking elsewhere for another partner.
Then, there are some women who will be content to have a luxury automobile at their disposal and a black American Express in her pocketbook as an alternative for a fulfilling sexual relationship. I have a friend who was dating a guy who did not do oral sex, however, this was her #1 most pleasurable sexual activity. She said if he bought her a 4 carat diamond ring she could look beyond not ever having oral sex for the rest of her life. I said all this to say is, there is nothing set in stone, rules can be bent or broken. I recently heard a comedian say that if women had to choose between a poor guy with a large penis and a rich guy with a small penis, all women would be driving Bentleys. LOL