Over the years I have had 3 women stick their head in the bathroom to check me out, a woman pull my pants down at a party 2 C what I had going on and other similar events. What is going on there? I don't mind but turnabout is fair play. I'm just saying. It kinda takes a person by surprise LOL.
I think maybe you give off the vibe that someone can take those liberties with you. Ever thought of that? On the other hand, sometimes when liquor is flowing a lot of people will overstep boundaries that they wouldnt necessarily broach.