Toxic Relationships

Why do you keep saying he "seduced you"?  You kept going to his house, so you WANTED to be seduced.

And, you didn't help him cheat on his g/f, you cheated with him.  He didn't need your help, only your cooperation.

You have no idea if his g/f will find out that he cheated, and you have no idea if that will upset her or it won't.  It sounds like he's very well practiced in the art of cheating.  She may very well know what he's doing......and not care.

He told you up front that if he had sex with you.......that's all it would be.  His relationship is more important to him than sex with you.  But you allowed it anyway.  And why would you not use protection?  What if you'd gotten pregnant, let alone an STD?  Do you think he'd suddenly be in love with you if you got pregnant?  NOT!!!!  He'd probably deny it was his!

If she finds out, and she may not, it may or may NOT create a wedge between them.......but that doesn't mean he'd come running to you anyway.  And, yes, if you got him in the end......what would you have......a CHEATER.  If he cheats on this g/f, he'll cheat on any g/f, including you.

The fact that he had sex with you with no protection and he put his tongue in your mouth.......do you think that has some special meaning?  It doesn't.  And then going to her a few days later.......so what?   Unless he got some STD from you and he gives it to her, it meant absolutely nothing.

You need to stop lowering yourself by having sex with an admitted cheater......and find yourself a man that's not taken. 

Why are you so angry with me? Have you been cheated on before? Look, the reason I mentioned that he would be going back to her after he had his tongue in my mouth ect, was that if I did have any std, he would be taking it right back to her. Does that sound like he cares about his girlfriend?

I didn't ask for this. He did seduce me whether you want to believe that or not. I described his seduction in my opening post. Not only that but he said he liked me and if he weren't already in a relationship with her, he'd be in one with me AND he gave me the option of having sex with him then or waiting to see what happens with his current relationship.

All I'm saying is that if he really cared for his girlfriend, would he continue to lie to her face and expose her to the other women he has been with? I think not.

I agree with fissatore (who is always right on target, from what I’ve seen) and also cl2ndlife.  You’re using the rationale that you were "seduced" (when you actually were a willing participant).  Lots of people cheat on their partners and expose them to various STDs – that’s nothing new and it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his girlfriend and it certainly doesn’t mean he is going to fall in love with you.  Why do people take the chance of carrying an STD, etc.  Because they CAN, and because they are thoughtless and get caught up in the momentary excitement of having sex with someone different.

So he said he likes you - that's nice.  But you're hanging your hopes on him leaving her for you.  I'm betting he "likes" many women, but you're trying to convince yourself that you're special to him.

You’re the angry one because no one is telling you what you want to hear.  Well, that’s how it goes sometimes.