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I am all over the place!

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  Oct-29 2:46 pm

I've just did a reality check and found out that I have finally hit rock bottom! Please give me some advice/inputs. I just got over a guy I dated and now I realized I'm all on my own. I am trying to set my priorities straight and this is horrible! I feel so overwhelmed. I am 21 years old, trying to get into nursing school but it's not going great. I have a pretty low gpa(2.75) so don't know if I should change majors now. I own 20,000 as of today in student loans/credit cards. I feel like I have nothing right now and I'm currently not even working! My god, this is also my fourth year in college and I've only completed 2 yrs worth. Please any advice! i don't know how I've gotten this far, I used to be so well-rounded. I am frightened that this can get worse if I make another mistake.
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One piece of advice I learned when I thought I was at my lowest, is that once you hit rock bottom, the only place to go is up!

It seems like you've identified the pieces of your life that you want to work on. My advice, make a list with small attainable goals, and stick to it.  Hold yourself accountable and have others in your life help if they can!

Good luck and let us know how it works out for you!

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