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Are we dating, really??

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So, a couple of weeks ago, I was dating this guy, and I told him I was kind of done.  I wanted to just be friends again.  He never called, and I felt like I was doing all the work.  Yada yada yada.

We kept in touch.  I sent odd emails over the month.  We got together one night for dinner.  I will admit we did hook-up, but it wasn't really romantic.  Just a hook-up.

I stopped by on Saturday to pick up some movies.  I stayed for about 2 hours and we talked.  He mentioned his step-mom is coming to town soon, and I should come to dinner with them.  He said she asks about me and gets at him about having babies with me.  I just laughed. 

Then I looked at him and asked, "did you tell her we aren't dating anymore".  He said ,"no".  He said "I don't really know what we are doing".  I just looked at him.  We haven't been out in over a month.  We only communicate over odd emails.  I asked him how exactly this would fit anyones definition of dating.  He didn't really answer.

Is he just being silly or does he really think we are still dating? 

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It sounds to me like he's not completely over you, but by you hooking up with him again and still seeing after you broke up is not helping. You're giving him mixed signals, and maybe that's why he thinks there's still something going on or a possibility of getting back together with you...so that's why he didn't tell his family you guys broke up, he is hoping to get back with you or get a clear answer from you. if u really don't want to be with this guy, u need to stop seeing him completely meaning no more dropping over at his house, otherwise if he really likes you and not completely over you, you may end up hurting him later
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