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Love me or not?

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Hi,
This is kinda a long story but to make is short. My boyfriend will not say he loves me. we went out in high school. got seperated for about 8 years, saw other people. We just recently got back together. I say i love him, i always have deep down, but he wont say it back is is possibly because he is still stuck on one of his exes? Or maybe he just feels its too early to say anyhting. do you think he loves me? its a tough one. i feel he does i just dont know why he cant say. thanks
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"We just recently got back together."
Then yes it's probably too early.

"do you think he loves me? its a tough one. i feel he does"
Neither you nor I get to determine what someone else feels. That's up to him alone.

If he acts caring and loving toward you, then that's what matters. He has to be sure he wants to say it before he does; you can't convince him to say it to you. It'll happen when it's right for him.

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Have you asked him how he feels?
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