NO WAY!
Its a shame it didnt give details about when or where that wedding was. IMO it was either many years ago or the groom was color blind. For some reason that wedding just doesnt sit right with me, we can all clearly see that he wanted to marry her bad enough that he agreed to plan the whole wedding, but if she really wanted to marry him why wouldnt she honor her grooms wish to have a nice wedding & help with the planning process?!
If I would have let my DH plan our wedding it would have been a crawl out of bed whenever we wake up, throw on some shorts & tank top, drive down to the court house, take a number and say our vows. No thank you HA HA.