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  Oct-28 8:30 pm

Ladies.... have any of your men ever had freak outs about being in a relationship??? at all...

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Hi Lena, I'm sorry your SO is having a "freak out." (((HUG))) Could you tell us a little bit more about the situation so we can help you better? What exactly is going on? I haven't experienced this with my current SO, we both very much wanted a serious relationship headed toward marriage from the beginning. We are all here to support you through whatever you are going through. Share a little more info if you can and hopefully someone here at NQE can relate and give great advice. :)

 

 

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  Oct-29 6:44 pm

To me that says "red flags."  Anyone who is having "freak outs" about being in a relationship, isn't ready for a relationship.  I would sit down and have a long and serious discuss with your SO and decide whether this is something you want.  If he is not ready to be in a relationship, most guys will sabbatage their relationship to get out of it.
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  Oct-30 2:25 pm

What kind of "freak out"? Robbie (my DH) has never had a "Freak Out" about being in a relationship. Whats to freak out about?????


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he had a freak out about commitment... we've been dating for a year n a half... n 3 months ago he made it Offical... n now he is having a freak out because he is getting older... i give him every freedom in the world... n last night he freaked out on me cuz i showed up with out calling to give him some stuff i got him and to be comforted because my father is dying and things got worse yesterday.... he has told me over and over how he sees us being together for years n years to come and this and that... but he always has these freak outs and we always work through them.... it's like he knows me n his sis were talking about us getting married! lol
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